What is the difference in finding and looking? The two words sound so much the same. When we look, we are looking so that we can find something. We look for our car keys. We find our car keys. Yeah, that sounds pretty close. The question is, can we find our car keys without looking?
How many times have your torn through your house looking for your keys? You look everywhere that you have been. You look in the normal spots. You look in the abnormal spots. They are gone. You close your eyes and take a breath. You find them. They were here all along. You did not need to look for them for them to be here.
When we actively look for something we set up expectations in our mind for what we will find or where we will find it. Those expectations limit and can set us up for disappointment if they are not fully met. Let go of expectations of finding and just find.
We suffer because we want things to last forever or, even worse, we EXPECT things to last forever. But, impermanence isn’t a bad thing in itself. That is just a value that we apply to it. Without impermanence, life is not possible. How can we transform our suffering if things are not impermanent? How can the situation in the world improve? We need impermanence for hope.
- Daniel Boepyol Scharpenburg – unleashyourbuddhanature
- Wabi-Sabi – Beauty in Impermanence (everydaygurus.com)
- The Impermanence of the Impermanent and the Permanent (maverickphilosopher.typepad.com)
- The Season of Impermanence. (elephantjournal.com)
- The Permanence Myth (americansilverback.wordpress.com)
- On Fear and The Rhythm of the Universe (guhyasamajacenter.wordpress.com)
- Impermanent and Permanent!!!!! (ptsdawayout.com)
- SRi M Said (srimwithus.wordpress.com)